How to Introduce Numbers & Letters to Your Toddler
June 23, 2023
Early learning, math & literacy skills, preschool prep – these are probably just a few of the phrases that you’ve heard thrown around now that you’re officially in the toddler years. And you likely have some questions. Luckily, I have some answers.
Hi, I’m Nicole and I’m a Child Testing Researcher and mom of two. My professional (and personal) experience has taught me that most parents aren’t sure where – or when – to start when it comes to early academics.
I’m hoping this article can provide you with a bit of a lesson plan. I’ve included timelines, tips & tools to help you feel a bit more prepared for these pre-preschool years.
No time to read? Watch this video (if you want to).
Why are early math & literacy skills so important?
The toddler years are big for your little one’s language development. Not only are they starting to understand more of what you say, they’re finding their own voice. So, naturally, that leads to lots of questions about everything around them. And letters & numbers are everywhere. The more they recognize ABCs & 123s and understand how they’re used, the more they can start to figure things out on their own. And, when they eventually head off to school, they’ll have a good foundation to build on.
Early learning tips
As adults, we often think of learning as just lessons that happen inside a classroom. But, for your toddler, the world (and your home) is the classroom. And there are so many simple ways you can play the role of teacher.
Number recognition & counting tips
Reading & literacy tips
Skill development timelines
One of the most important lessons I’ve learned as a child development expert (and mom) is that children learn at different paces and in different ways. The below is just meant to give you some general timelines for when you might see certain skills show up – and remind you that early math & literacy skills start way before 123s & ABCs.
MATHEMATICS
18 to 26 months Stops filling bucket with sand when it's full
19 to 21 months Completes a puzzle of three separate cut-out pieces, such as a circle, square, and triangle
20 to 30 months Recognizes basic geometric shapes (circle and oval first, then square and rectangles)
23 to 25 months Assembles a two-piece puzzle; for example, a picture of a flow¬er cut into two pieces
24 to 30 months Understands concept of one
28 to 36 months Counts out loud to 3
30 to 36 months Stacks rings in correct order
30 to 36 months Points to larger or smaller of two spoons
LITERACY
12 to 18 months Recognizes favorite & familiar stories when shown book covers (and responds with positive emotions in the form of smiles or laughter)
14 to 15 months Helps turn pages
18 to 24 months Can identify familiar characters in stories through pointing when prompted by an adult
30 to 36 months Enjoys being read to and looks at books independently
36 to 48 months Shows an awareness of alphabet letters such as singing the ABC song, recognizing letters from their own name or other frequently seen letters
36 to 60 months Prints own first or last name (from copying examples)
Parent check-in
How are you feeling? Hopefully, a bit more knowledgeable (and a bit less stressed)?
Just know that you’re not expected to sit your toddler down at a desk every day and quiz them on their numbers & letters. Because, at this age, that’s not how they learn. They learn by experiencing things, doing activities, and watching you.
So, keep doing what you’re doing. Because you’ll always be their greatest teacher.
Gentle reminder: If you ever have concerns about your child’s development, trust your gut and reach out to your pediatrician.”
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